Perfectionism
A pattern of setting unrealistically high standards, excessive self-criticism, and fear of failure that impairs functioning, wellbeing, and authentic engagement with life.
Quick answer
Perfectionism involves unrealistically high standards and excessive self-criticism that impairs functioning and authentic engagement with life. CBT, acceptance-based therapies, coaching, and self-compassion practices address the underlying fear and rigid thinking patterns.
Do any of these feel familiar?
- Perfectionism is experienced as a relentless inner drive to meet standards that shift upward whenever approached — making genuine satisfaction rare or fleeting
- Many people describe an ongoing internal commentary of self-criticism: noticing flaws, replaying mistakes, and comparing their performance unfavourably to an ideal or to others
- Fear of failure can lead to procrastination, avoidance, or over-preparation that consumes disproportionate time and energy
- Many describe a deep difficulty in completing tasks — because finishing means exposing imperfection to judgement
- The emotional cost is significant: chronic anxiety, imposter syndrome, burnout, and a persistent sense of never being quite enough are common companions
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