The Setting

EFT sessions can take place in person or online — video sessions are effective because the protocol is verbal and visible. You will typically be seated comfortably. You do not need to remove clothing or prepare in any special way. Sessions are conversational in tone, with the practitioner guiding you through the tapping protocol.

Step 1: Identifying the Target

The session begins by identifying what to work on — a specific thought, feeling, memory, or physical sensation. The more specific the target, the more effective EFT tends to be. Rather than 'my anxiety', the target might be 'the tight feeling in my chest when I think about Monday's presentation'. The practitioner may help you identify the most useful starting point.

Step 2: Rating the Intensity

Once the target is identified, you rate its emotional intensity on a 0–10 scale (0 = no distress, 10 = maximum distress). This is called the SUD — Subjective Units of Distress — scale. This rating gives a baseline to measure against and is re-assessed after each round of tapping.

Step 3: The Setup Statement

Before beginning the tapping sequence, you tap on the 'karate chop' point (the fleshy side of the hand) and repeat a setup statement three times. The standard format is: 'Even though I have [this specific problem], I deeply and completely accept myself.' This combines acknowledgement of the problem with a statement of self-acceptance — a cognitive reframe borrowed from acceptance-based therapies.

Step 4: Tapping Through the Points

You then tap through the sequence of points — eyebrow, side of eye, under eye, under nose, chin, collarbone, under arm, top of head — approximately 5–7 times on each point, while repeating a shortened 'reminder phrase' that keeps focus on the issue ('this anxiety', 'this tight chest feeling'). One full pass through the sequence is called a 'round' and takes approximately 60–90 seconds.

Re-rating and Refining

After each round, you re-rate the intensity. If it has dropped, the setup statement may be adjusted to reflect the shift ('Even though I still have some of this anxiety...'). If new aspects of the issue emerge — a different emotion, a memory, a body sensation — these become the new target. The process continues, narrowing in on the issue from different angles, until intensity reaches a low level.

Closing the Session

Sessions typically end with a positive round — tapping while focusing on a preferred state or affirming quality ('I am calm and capable'). The practitioner will check in with you, discuss what came up, and often suggest a self-tapping practice to continue between sessions.